“If My Boyfriend Cheats on Me, I’ll Apologise and Be a Better Woman” – Serwaa of Apedwa Sparks Debate

Apedwa, Kumasi – A young woman from Apedwa in the Ashanti Region has become the subject of intense social media debate after making a controversial statement about relationships. Serwaa, a 24-year-old seamstress apprentice, boldly declared that if her boyfriend were to cheat on her, she would apologise to him and strive to become a better woman rather than walk away.

The remarks, made during a community youth forum in Kumasi, have since gone viral, sparking outrage, confusion, and admiration in equal measure. According to Serwaa, her philosophy stems from her belief that “men only cheat when they are lacking something at home.”

“If my boyfriend cheats on me, I will first ask myself what I did wrong. Maybe I wasn’t giving him enough care or attention. Instead of fighting him, I will apologise and try to improve. That is what makes a strong relationship,” Serwaa said, drawing mixed reactions from the audience.

Public Reaction

Her comments have ignited heated discussions across Apedwa and beyond. Some young women criticized her stance, describing it as a dangerous mindset that enables toxic behavior. Others, however, praised her humility, with some men in attendance saying her words reflected “rare loyalty” in modern relationships.

A local pastor who attended the forum expressed concern, saying:

“Forgiveness is good, but no woman should blame herself for a man’s unfaithfulness. Relationships require accountability on both sides.”

A Wider Debate on Gender Roles

Serwaa’s statement has highlighted ongoing cultural debates in Ghana about gender roles, loyalty, and the expectations placed on women in relationships. In many traditional settings, women are often encouraged to endure infidelity to preserve relationships, while men face fewer consequences for cheating.

As her story circulates on social platforms, Serwaa insists she was only sharing her personal view and not prescribing it to everyone.

“Every woman has her choice. This is mine,” she told reporters.

Whether viewed as misguided or admirable, Serwaa’s perspective has undoubtedly sparked a necessary conversation about love, loyalty, and respect in modern Ghanaian relationships.